Saturday, February 28, 2009

change is inevitable


Today, I met one of my old friend Let me explain the scene what happened…

M : Hi!!!

Me : hi , how are you??

M: am fine and you???

Me : fine…

M : smiling….

Me : smiling……

This person M and Me  were  silent for next 1 min and we were standing opposite to each other without speaking anything. after 1 min jus to break the ice.

Me : so,

M : so,smiling…

Me : so, how is your college ??

M : good !

Me : and friends  ???

M : even better ….

Me : good… for you…

M : silent………

Me : silent again……

and at the end that person met some friend and i met some one else and we dispersed……

I was talking to the same person  all day and so was that person  jus a year ago, and now we did not even have a single word to speak or talk to each other.

I sometimes really think, how people change every passing day,we change every day and so our relationships.I am not saying that this person changed and am not putting the blame on that person.In my case,Perhaps,we didn’t have anything to talk or perhaps didn’t want to talk or perhaps because of some other  reason . Relationships change as we move on in our lives.We just need to know , how to maintain such relationships either with friends, cousins ,siblings or girl friends.How can we just can’t talk to each other for few minutes when we use to talk for hours together without any discomfort……. …I think its high time that we need maintain our relationships with every one around us and never loose it unnecessarily……for silly reasons….

Cheers!!!

Peace!!!!

P. S : I just started reading... Digital fortress by dan brown.... loving it...!!!

8 comments:

Resonator said...

Hi;

how r u..

yeah it happens...same kinda conversation happened with my old frd too..she forgot everything all of sudden..nothing can b done in tat situation..jus 'bye' word helped me to end the chat..

happy blogging

vemuri said...

hi... am fine thanks....

hmmmm i guess it happens to every one...


Cheers!!!
Peace!!!
keep comenting....

Thoorika said...

Happens!! However close tat person is.. eventually you end up sensing a uncomfortable silence when you meet them after a very long time.. !! I have similar experiences as well.. !! :(

Read all Dan Brown books!! They are really good !!

Nidhi said...

Its hapopen life change, ppl change time change and so does relationship with time and i hate it.
I at times look back there were ppl whom i hugged and cried together laughed together and it hurts whn they are not the same any more esp cuz they have NEw BF n GF stuff. stupid things
but all happens fr good.
We treasure good memories and try deletign the bad once right??

Nidhi said...

Its hapopen life change, ppl change time change and so does relationship with time and i hate it.
I at times look back there were ppl whom i hugged and cried together laughed together and it hurts whn they are not the same any more esp cuz they have NEw BF n GF stuff. stupid things
but all happens fr good.
We treasure good memories and try deletign the bad once right??

Nidhi said...

@Resonator - bye helped to end chat >. sad. !!! very sad

vemuri said...

@thoorika...

yeah... it's really awkward when you face them....

and danbrown.... really good....

vemuri said...

@nidhi...

yeah.... its sometimes seeems to be stupid.... but we jus can't help it